omg giget, i feel exactly the same, my grandma died 1 yr ago and I was also afraid to see her. I get sad but unlike you I did not have a very close bond with her. I feel so sorry for u

Jeff: [part 1] I really thought about this one and I can’t come up with a definitive answer for you, all I can do is tell you my experience! I was asked out by a guy who really liked me and thought I was beautiful and honestly, I didn’t find him attractive. He was shorter than me, had glasses and was balding (he wasn’t ULGY tho!!) but I said yes to him anyway. We dated for around 4 years. We had a lot in common, including the same sense of humor plus he was very smart and sweet. (cont)

@Jeff

I dont think you’re a jerk for not physically liking her. when you meet someone on the street you cant see a nice personality.. you can just see attitude and appearance.

since you’ve known her longer you might be attracted to her personality. remember there must be a difference between friendship and love since love feels like friendship after a while..

it is great you are a christian just sayin xD
(or at least you belive in god )

Dear Buck,
I am a male to female transsexual and I am having trouble with my relationship with my Dad. We have never really had a good relationship and I told him I was a transsexual about 5 months ago. I feel he hates me now more than ever. He is also kind of a bad drinker so he can really be an ass sometimes and I can never really talk to him about my transition. I think he is just playing the out-of-sight out-of-mind game and hoping it will all go away.

@deneyael meantt o say To Neil: Definitely finish what you started. There is no quantifiable value on knowledge even such that you don’t particularly you have now and let is inform your next segment of education. It’s valuable now. trust the Elders. Any knowledge is good.take the education to a pure new level.

Gidget: I would really suggest some counseling sessions to help you with your grief over your grandma. A local hospital, or a grief counseling corporation provides group sessions, one on one sessions, camps, and more. They really are helpful to alot of people, and trust me, it’s definitely not weird to go there and it doesn’t mean that you need psychic therapy or anything! It can’t hurt! I’m sorry about your grandma, and I hope everything works out!

@rockerbabysba hahaha i guess that kinda makes sense but still it’s a little bit weird. i mean for twins and stuff i assume there’s some genetic link and parental instincts etc. thanks though

if you date someone you’re not physically attracted to, i believe you’re setting yourself up for failure. relationships require both emotional and physical attraction- you can’t have a GOOD romantic relationship if one is missing- they go hand in hand.

Dear Buck,
I’m an extremely out of shape kid in a school of athletes, and gym class is hell for me. I get really uncomfortable during classes and the only thing I can to to keep myself from crying (I know it sounds dramatic, but that’s how bad it feels) is by biting/clawing at my arms; it makes me calm down quicker. I haven’t been doing this recently because I’ve been telling my gym teacher that I’m sick, but if I keep doing this then I’ll fail gym and screw up my average. What should I do?

first time I saw one of these, it was great! Good advice, keep it coming!

@SodaMyPlatypus93 Firstly i would confront her about it, not in an argumentative way like ‘why are staying with her instead of me?!’ but more just show her that you miss her: try not argue cos that can make it worse. I would also get to know others more too, especially if the confrontation doesn’t go well. Sometimes friends just drift apart its only natural. Try not to hang on to her too much because this may be seen as irritating (even if ur trying to do good) Best of luck!!
Alison

To the girl who likes to sing:
Honey, don’t quit! Seriously, half of the people commenting are probably just jealous, or they’re really just trying to help. Just keep doing what you love and ignore the jerks of the internet!